Must feel bad man, girls usually come to me without me having to be "superalphaoacoolmanliness!!!!!"
I'll just talk to them, try and make them laugh etc. and move on. idk seems to work for me, or maybe Florida just has a bunch of clingy hot chicks.
this one girl (who I would say is 8/10, but she's really popular) is ALWAAYYYSS trying to hang out with me, which I guess is a good thing, but it gets annoying. I guess what I'm trying to say is don't be clingy and don't be obsessive.
It's difficult. It really is. I have clingy stuck-on-the-same-girl-for-awhile-in-some-shape-or-form tendencies.
I obsess over fixing people. And I am able to influence them, but it takes patience and time and a bunch of other stuff I don't usually stress over. My life is fine. I'm for pulling other people out of ruts.
But this girl I want so badly and I can't wait. I try to be patient and she puts down her walls for a little bit and then when I try to get further she puts up the walls again. She'll only change if she wants to. Everyone's like that. I'm not an idiot. But it makes me feel all helpless and shit.
My jock friend was telling me "Girls aren't like computers man! You're not going to change them or get the result you want from them as fast as you'd like. Your fast Asian-typing skills isn't going to like... speed up the process dude."
I guess... I don't want to wait. It's really stupid.
And yeah, I hear there are a lot of hotties in Florida like that. I know some ROBLOX people who tell me that often